Okay, what can I say here that I haven't already said before? I know it shouldn't be that hard to explain to a general audience what I am looking for, but in this day and age, I feel I have to be direct and tell you exactly what I want, or else I will end up with someone totally lame, and totally wrong for me… even though that is usually what I get off of my list of requirements anyways. And while it is not that important to fit my requirements to a tee, it would be nice if you could at least fit 2/3 of them.
In a general sense, looks are not that important. While I want someone with a nice face, and a nice body, looks really don't mean a damn to me. As long as whoever I am with has a good personality, I can overlook the fact that he isn't Johnny Depp, or Chris Daughtry.
I need a guy with a good sense of humor… someone that can make me laugh and smile when life is not going my way. A guy that knows when I have had a bad day, and can come home and make me happy just to be with him. Hopefully this guy will have the good sense to give me a massage on days like these.
I need a guy who is more than willing to spend a lot of time with me. I am a lot of work… not high maintenance, but I need attention from who I am dating. I need someone who is willing to call or text me, even if it is just for a few minutes out of the day. I also need a guy who can make time in his busy schedule to spend time with me, and not take my presence for granted. It doesn't matter what we are doing. We could just be sitting in the silence, enjoying each other's company. As long as I am spending time with you, it doesn't matter what we are doing.
I need a guy who is going to be a total gentleman. The type that opens doors, and pays for things. I am tired of being the one to spend the money in relationships. I want a man who is willing to be the dominant one in the relationship. For once I don't want a man to take my independence and use it against me. I may be independent, but for once, I want someone who wants to take care of me.
I need a guy who wants a family… a big family. Not someone who says he wants a family, then stays with me for a year, and then drops it on me that he isn't really interested in having kids. Don't waste my time. Don't waste yours. It's not really worth it.
I need a guy who has a job, and at least an idea of what he wants to do with his life, and a plan on how to get there. Ambition is nice, and it will get you far with me. While I plan to have a career, I don't plan to support some lazy bum who is used to his parents carrying him through life.
Anyways, this is just a general idea. Nothing too fancy, because I am not that picky.
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